I take it I! – Aftenposten

The branch manager Gina struggling with the team. Whatever she suggests, there is always someone who will not. They have completely different plans, and justifies it. Gina is often left with no job will take. As last week when she collected two søplesekker with bottles from the staff room. She has said that the everyone must clean up after themselves, but it does not go into. So it is with so much.

She purchases latte to one, giving fredagsfri to the other. She has neither respect or implementation power. Gina find it difficult to be in leadership position.

She is afraid that someone will resent her. She will then feel the fit. She adapts according to etiquette. She cleans all, she accepts all proposals, she extends far when someone will have free, she works overtime others to drop. She forgets entirely what she is hired to do. It’s hard to focus on what is important. There is no time for it.

She irritates him, but never says from. Imagine if they turn their backs to her!

Custom or boundless?

Inside she like a ticking time bomb, surface she becomes equally tractable as a teddy bear. Talk about a demanding role change! From bomb teddy!

There is rarely a good cooperation if we do not adapt. Are all of its being neither progress or good climate of cooperation. A healthy adaptation gives there in the good results. The interface for the unhealthy to the healthy may be up to you.

There are countless variations to adapt to. Common in this game is that victimhood is never far away.

You probably know she left that says “but my dear, this takes when I!”

or “just bring your three-year-girls trip, you!”

or: “I take what’s left!”

When it’s become a habit to adapt you, you much to gain by breaking this pitiful pattern. To adapt to the east and to the west is a very draining game.

You in adaptation role;

It’s not healthy to say yes thanks to a run when your body screams after getting rest. Be rather honest and say what you want to!

There are a lot of noise when you say that afternoon meeting’s okay, when you know there will be chaos with pickup in kindergarten. Ask if there is possible either to take the meeting tomorrow morning!

You do not have to please a moody colleague . Clarify whether you feel that something amiss. Then go further on yours!

Put yourself occasionally in the driving seat!

Droy bit before you bid your way!

When others take the role ;

Say you know when you what other stretches clammy far.

Avoid to accept when others stretching out his hand in the wrong place!

With fearful joy gaped enough many as Elvis Presley rolled past in his pink Cadillac. Where sequins rattled racing with champagne and pinups. It was the time when men were men. Such kings adapts rarely anyone other than his own dream and countries.

A nice Sunday exercise are:

See how many times during the day you adapt – good and bad!

You will definitely be surprised!

See also:

pine Peter and Paul

Are you become a copy of a mechanical trekkoppmus?

Have you gone out of a job meeting and wondered what was said?

Published: 22 March. 2015 1:43 p.m.